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Well, we had a wonderful exploration of masturbation the last two weeks with our question of the week. If you missed out on it, you need to check it out. But I have in my spirit for this week to discuss marital sex. So our question for this week, or unitl the Holy Spirit says otherwise: “Which sex acts are permissable within the confines of marriage?”

I have a feeling that this one will be interesting and passionate. Please post in love and remember to include scripture when you can. This is all about finding out the Biblical perspective on Christian sexuality. So let’s blog!

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I know I have not done any current events lately, but this was just too sick for me to not post it. A US prosecutor, you know the ones who supposedly catch bad guys, turned out to be a pretty bad guy himself. He got busted in a a sting to catch internet child predators while trying to arrange to have sex with a five year old girl!!!

 This is definitely the spirit of sexual fantasy. The spirit of sexual fantasy detaches you from reality to the point that you no longer realize that your actions are real. You see your actions only as a part of your fantasy and are detached from the reality of the consequences. If you are involved in sexual fantasy or pornography please reach out to me. I can help you. I don’t want you to end up like this man.

Read the article for yourself here:

http://www.miamiherald.com/775/story/242448.html

 

If you are looking for a previous article it can be found on the Archives page here:

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 If you would like to become a born again believer in Yeshua/Jesus Christ and receive eternal salvation, please visit the Born Again page here: https://christiansexuality.wordpress.com/how-to-be-saved/         

 If you are interested in being a moderator or author for this weblog please e-mail me at laneenhaniah@victoriouslyfree.org     

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This is another sad story of how sexual perversion can ruin someone’s life. A married city councilman committed suicide over the weekend. He apparently could not face the consequences of his actions. He was accused of molesting two teenage girls and sexually harrassing another woman.

I believe that it was the spirit of sexual fantasy that drove this man over the edge. This is a quote from my book, The Spirits of Sexual Perversion Handbook, about the spirit of pornography/sexual fantasy:

” Although the spirit of sexual fantasy can cause you to isolate yourself, it can also drive you to seek out fulfillment of your fantasies.

Whatever it is that you are fantasizing about, whether it is child molestation, rape, sex with animals, homosexuality, and etcetera – if you are drawn deep enough into the fantasy, you will become detached enough from reality to think that you can do it and still be in control. Sexual fantasy can get so bad that it can lead you into a state of psychosis where the real world ceases to exist for you. You will get to the point that you are committing all types of crazy and dangerous, possibly illegal acts without realizing the consequences or affects of those acts. You will be completely unaware of what is going on around you in the real world because the act itself is of no significance to you. It is the fantasy that you are playing out, that consists of the act, that is driving you and bringing you pleasure.

This is such a dangerous, dangerous spirit. If you are bound by this spirit, whether in the form of pornography or sexual fantasy, if you still have enough presence of mind to understand what I am saying, I beg you to put this book down right now and repent. Ask Jesus to save you from this spirit! You could be just days or even moments away from completely losing your grip on reality; destined to rot away in insanity like so many lost souls wandering the streets homeless and behaving strangely.”

Pornography and sexual fantasy is a very, very serious vice. Please don’t take it lightly. One of the side effects of this spirit is depression. Reality cannot live up to the fantasies and it causes “real life” to therefore be very disappointing and depressing. This spirit can take you into a dark place that you may never escape! If you need help in this area, let’s talk about it. 

If you want to read the article about the city councilman, follow this link:http://www.foxnews.com/story/0,2933,296180,00.html

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Sexuality is a gift from God, meant for us to enjoy. However, done improperly it becomes a deadly prison. Take it from a former prostitute that is now happily married — there’s a right way and a wrong way to do it. Learn how to live a sexual lifestyle that will truly satisfy without putting you on the path of destruction!

In His Power,
Minister Laneen A. Haniah
Anavah – the blog owner and author of
The Spirits of Sexual Perversion Handbook
www.victoriouslyfree.org 

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In the Power of Love,

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Prolific Author and Speaker specializing in Sex, Intimacy and Relationships from a holistic perspective – spirit, soul and body

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Anavah’s Family Portrait

Hi, my name is Laneen! This is a picture of me and my beautiful family – my wonderful husband Emmanuel, and our 6 children ages 13, 7, 6, 5, 3 and 1. Looking at us you definitely see my glory but you don’t know my story. I am a Minister of the Gospel now, but I didn’t always look like this, and I certainly did not always live like this.  I want to share with you a small portion of my struggles with sexual addictions and how I overcame.

When I was 2 years old I was regularly molested by a lesbian babysitter. Then shortly afterward, I was raped by one of my relatives. My childhood memories include watching pornography, seeing people have sex in front of me, laying in bed next to people who were masturbating and being instructed on how to do it to myself, playing with sex toys and being casually and haphazardly touched in my intimate places by male and female relatives just as a matter of habit.  I certainly became a product of my environment.

I started masturbating at the age of 5, developed a fond interest in pornography, took on a homosexual nature and attempted to have intercourse. If you can believe it or not, my greatest desire at the age of 5 was to see a penis! I was absolutely obsessed with seeing the male anatomy and tenaciously pursued my goal. Two of the greatest factors in fostering sexual addictions is rejection and insecurity. I suffered greatly from both. I can remember even at the age of 4 when I was in preschool that the other children did not like me. I was a misfit and an outcast before I even knew how to spell my own name. From the time I was 6 other girls were calling me “lesbo” and “dyke”.  

My Mom eventually cleaned up her life and got married but the demons of molestation followed us right into our new lives. Let’s just say that Mom always had a hankering for picking the wrong men and consequently sexual abuse continued on in my household behind closed doors.

I was crushed when I was told at the age of 10 that I would not be able to have children. Strong medications from a terminal illness had ravaged my reproductive system. Other than seeing male private parts (laugh), getting married and having a beautiful family one day was my life’s goal. I wanted to make the type of family that I didn’t have. How could that dream be taken away from me at such a young age? What purpose would my life hold when my heart’s desire had already been thwarted? 

At the age of fifteen I graduated from having sex with dolls, hairbrushes and carrots to intercourse with a real live man. I didn’t care about my life or health at that time. I was looking for love and acceptance in all the wrong places and I was determined to prove those doctors wrong. I wanted to have a baby! I grew up in a fairly small city and so it didn’t take long for me to gain a reputation as the ‘neighborhood ho’. I thought having sex would help me find love, but truly it only led me to more hatred and rejection.

I eventually became an alcoholic and drug addict making all of the worse decisions for my life.  I left home at the age of 16 so that I could fully embrace my new life of addictions and the gates of hell were opened against me. It’s too long of a story to tell but before it was all said and done I had become a drug addict and dealer, a gang member, had been incarcerated several times, had been in mental institutions several times, had guns put up to my head on 4 different occasions, had been raped on 3 different occasions, had been jumped, stabbed, became a practicer of witchcraft, became a stripper and a prostitute, had sex with over 200 people, had contracted venereal diseases on 8 separate occasions and consequently had made 3 very serious suicide attempts!!!  

All of these things occurred in my life because my sexual addictions caused me to make the wrong choices. It’s a miracle that I am alive today, healthy, whole and a testimony of victory! I know that you must now be wondering how I went from the woman you just read about to the one you see in the picture above – right? Well…that’s the question that I want to answer for you. However, it is too much for me to address on the website and that is why I have written a book called, The Spirits of Sexual Perversion Handbook.  In the book I will teach you everything that I learned about overcoming sexual perversions and addictions.

Isn’t it time that your story end in glory just like mine did? YES it is time – it is truly time for another level in your life!  

Until you can get your hands on the book though, feel free to blog me about anything you want to concerning life, sex, Christianity, addictions, my past -whatever…

You can visit my personal website too at http://www.victoriouslyfree.org/  

 

In His Power,
Minister Laneen A. Haniah

Anavah – the blog owner and author of
The Spirits of Sexual Perversion Handbook
www.victoriouslyfree.org 

Looking for a previous article? Click Here

Would you  like to become a born again believer in Yeshua/Jesus Christ and receive eternal salvation? Click Here    

Want to share a testimony? Click Here

Need advice about something? Click Here     

If you are interested in being a moderator or author for this weblog please  e-mail me at laneenhaniah@victoriouslyfree.org     

(Please be advised that if you post a comment to any article on this weblog, you will automatically be added to the mailing list, receiving weekly updates about this site. If you do not want to be automatically added to this list all you have to do is add this phrase in parenthesis at the beginning of your first comment only: “I do not wish to be added to the mailing list”. You only have to add this phrase to the very first comment you post. It will protect you from receiving updates. Thank you for your cooperation. ) ) 

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