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Yes it is so true, Sex is a gift a gift that gives lifee.
I must tell you this however. Sex was one of the reasons I struggled with christianity. In Korea a Pastor of the church not only had a wife in LA but a fiance in the church. I was in love with this young lady and we were dating and while on leave I was about to pop the question and she told me that the Pastor had asked her to marry him and that they were involved also.
They never married and he has since Katrina moved from LA to TX and a thriving Bishop and still married to his wife. I had just gotten saved and was waiting to get married to this young lady when I found out that everyone (almost) was having sex and not with there spouses.
I am over that now but once in a while I meet someone while witnessing and they they tell me that there are bigger more whoremongers and adulterers in the church than on the street and this should not be.
Stories like yours are common, unfortunately. I don’t know if there is MORE sexual perversion in the church, but it is certainly equal to what exists outside of the church. Some recent statistical studies I did said that 90% of Christian males and 60% of Christian females admitted to struggling with some form of lust, pornography or other sexual sin.
No it should not be, but people perish for lack of knowledge. One of the major victories that satan has in this area is his success in keeping people ignorant concerning the true source of sexual sin. We deal with it as if it is merely a physical problem and it is not. The physical act of sin is merely a manifiestation of that which already existed spiritually.
The other problem, I believe is that so many of our leaders are either actively involved in sexual sin, or have been kind of delivered but refuse to talk about it. Therefore, this stuff goes on in secret with everyone thinking that they are one of the only few people dealing with the issue!
That is why I am so transparent about my past and why I am trying to teach people through my book, The Spirits of Sexual Perversion Handbook, and in any other way that I can, how sexual perversion really works and how to really get delivered!
I will be ordering your book and possibly seek your presence at one of the youth events God has placed on my heart to do.
I teach a purity class adn as a result my 21 yr old daughter is still a virgin.
Please provide your info and contact number so a brief description of your ministry and bio and I will present it to my Pastor and more than likely the church secretary will contact you.
isang4u@yahoo.com
Be blessed and know that I have added you and your family to my prayer list of successful ministries.
Congrats on your daughter! That is such an encouragement as I have two daughters and four sons that I am constantly praying over. I only have one son who is a teenager. He is still “pure” from what I can tell.
The rest of them are 7 and under, but I teach them purity now. My toddlers know more about sex than some adults! Laugh
If you go to my website, http://www.victoriouslyfree.org you can get a full bio on me and my contact info. If you still need more please let me know and I will provide it. Thank you for your prayers. I certainly need them.
Anavah–You are truly an inspiration to us all.
Hi Wake up
Thanks again for sharing.
shabbat Shalom
Hi,I just read your great article on christian sexuality.
I would like to share some information I recently learned.
I am not a doctor but this information should be reliable.
There are some diseases that would spread through anal sex
that might not be spread through normal sex.
Sperm has a small amount of antibiotic to protect the woman,
however might be a cause of rectal cancer for the recipiant of anal sex.
The human mouth is full of germs and is a cause of problems
with some infections.
Anal sex can cause leaking of the recipiant.
Thank you for your courage and frankness on these popular issues.I might add that we are supposed to be christians all the time,including in the bedroom.It is important for a person to say no when necessary.We are christian,love making is much different than selfish gratification. Assault is never appropriate in a relationship. Mark
Hello, I just want to thank you for sharing your story. I am a 22-year old college student and I am on my way to becoming victoriously free!!! Sexual perversion runs rampant in my family and at first I really didn’t know why but there was something wrong with me. I like, yourself was molested and engaged in many sexually perverse activities but I am glad that God has allowed you to be bold about something that we constantly sweep under the rug because it’s not polite. You are truly an inspiration to me. My freedom is not just for me, but for my family, friends, and especially for my future husband. Thank you again, woman of God!!!
What does the bible say about divorce and reamrriage?
Hi EagleEyes. Thanks so much for the encouragement and congradulations to you for being an overcomer!
Matthew I’m so sorry I have not gotten those scrips on divorce posted for you yet. I have had an absolutely CRAZY week!
I will be moving your question to the advice page and respond to it there. In the mean time there are a lot of great articles on this blog. You can find them on the archives page. Here are the titles:
Juanita Bynum, Paula White… What’s happening here?
When a spouse cheats, is the other spouse to blame?
Is Divorce “Permissable” After Adultery, or Is It “Required”?
Hello you just did a conference at my church Household of faith
take the x out of sex. I want to say thank you for your boldness and your realness if the world had more people like you what a wonderful world this would be. I was not going to come when I first saw the flyer because I siad I do not have a problem with sex but I am glad I came you bless me so teaching about the intimacy and worship I am married 12 yrs yesterday but currently separated and this sexual perversion has destroyed it but I purchased and book for him and told him to read it and I guarantee you it will be a blessing. Woman of God I am going to continue to lift you up in prayer and fasting and you continue to do the will of God no matter what people do or say.
love always
your sister in christ
maria vereen
Hi, my name is Brittany. I attended your conference this past weekend, you signed my book and said that I was pulling from you the whole time. I tell you I never heard anyone preach about sex and its demons like that. This was the fasted I read a christian book(STD’s) since I have been saved, and its been years. LOOOONNNGG years…..Well, I have learned so much from you.
I will be investing in some more of your material.
Be Blessed!
Thanks so much for the feedback on the conference at Household of Faith church! It was truly a lifechanging experience for everyone, including me!!!
Never posted on a blog or a Christian website; so here goes. I’ve read all your advice yet still wanted to receive some wisdom.
The issue I have struggled with is my marriage to a Christian man since I was 23. I’m now 47. We both were Christians when we married. Soon, I was stricken with a dibilatating disease. He had to care for me and my depressionl. I was able to finish college and graduate school. Soon, we bought a house, I had 2 miscarriages. I was very promiscuous as a teen and also found out my disease was associated with an early trauma in the womb of my mother. Anyhow, as life goes, my husband began to pull away from me. He found it hard to be around me and my fatigue. I still worked and did all I could to be a good wife. Soon, he began raging on me. I became bitter and found myself in an affair. Something I never ever thought about. He found out and was mad. I ended the relationship but he would always still yell at me and I was scared all the time. Soon, I became involved over and over with many men as a way to “get even” I certainly didn’t know how to stop all this chaos. For the past 12 years this crazy life continued. However, I stopped my addiction to men 3 years ago when the Lord came down on me. My husband knows of only 2 of my sins. I would love to tell him but he is yelling, screaming, or pouting so I literally am unable to talk to him. Needless to say……..we have stuck it out but he continues to be passive-aggressive. I get headaches whenever he is around. I can’t think, my heart hurts and I get fatigued and feel sick. I wonder if he is the main reason I still struggle with my sickness. We are involved at church and can’t really get “real” about this. I told him to stop yelling at me and he will say “i’m not yelling”. So……… I can only say I feel better when he’s not here and worse when he is here. I hate the D word but see no hope or future. I’m really concerned about my depression, my lack of motivation and unable to get him to care about taking care of the house. It’s been 17 years and he hasn’t used 1 screw to fix any one thing??? Weird, huh? I don’t get it. Is he waiting for me to end it? Am I to D him or keep on hanging on by a thread. I’m getting so weary and find it almost unbearable to cope. I’ve asked to see counselors but when we do the problem gets worse and anger escalates. He seems not to care about anything. I’m unable to talk to him about my faith or sermons because he feels interragated. He has yelled at me “SUBMIT” and he goes to bed angry each night. This hurts and I tell him and he just deny’s EVERYTHING THAT I SAY???
I consider him a psychopathic christian. Everyone thinks he’s an Angel; but I bear the brunt of this angelic man.
I know this is long but just wanted your insight.
Thanks for your website and help!!!
In Him,
Confused
Hi Laneen,
I can’t explain to you how much you have blessed me. I have been divorced for 3 years now because my ex-husband was unfaithful and abusive for 15 years. I have had to overcome a lot. When you came to our church Household of Faith back in June You have changed my life. Oh I can’t tell you how much I praise God for you. I have not only learned some of what my ex-husband may have faced but I also learned somethings about myself. The scripture you ministered on has been in my head since the conference. God sent you to make the crooked way straight so that the glory of the Lord can be revealed…I understand now and because of you I have been able to understand why I had to make sure that I don’t allow the spirits of sexual perversion to overtake me so that God’s glory can be revealed in ME!!!!!!!!!
With the help of God I have started a magazine called “Inner Beauty Magazine”its a testimonial magazine of women telling all they went through and much much more! I really would like for you to look at my myspace and check it out. I am looking for writers to contribute to my magazine and I immediately thought about you. Will you pray about becoming a writer for my magazine and let me know?
Thanks a Lot for the impartation
May God Bless you in all you do…..
Serving those who serve him
Nadira Bryant
(Praise Dancer HOFC)
Thanks so much Nadira for sharing your testimony with me. I am so glad that my work for the Kingdom has blessed you. I am honored that have considered me as a writer for your magazine. We can definitely talk about. Why don’t you e-mail me at info@victoriouslyfree.org. I’d love to check out your myspace page but you didn’t give me your url! LOL Be in touch OK.
In His Power,
Anavah
Hi Laneen I do apologize. I thought that I gave it to you. My myspace page is
http://www.myspace.com/innerbeautymagz and my email address is innerbeautymagz@yahoo.com
hi, i’m back. I missed looking at these blogs
Hi Sis. I have sent the article to you twice. Did you get it yet?
My beautiful-in-the-lord sister, thank you for your real-ness and your courage in what you are allowing the father to do thru you. May his voice be heard and echoed and magnified thru you and may many hearts, minds, souls be changed and filled with hope and truth.
Blessed by your testimony.
Barbara thank you so much for the encouragement! Were you one of the my broadcast listeners from Kingdom Radio Network?
I am dealing with these type of deamons. I want to stop but I do not know how.Can you give me some advice please.
Please read all of the articles on this blog about Incubus and succubus. You can find them in the archives. They will be very helpful. Also, there are wonderful resources available on my website http://www.drintimacy.com
You can be free!!!
Hey!! I’m not sure if you remember me but I had the pleasure of speaking with you when I called from Florida and I read the spirits of sexual perversion handbook and get out of harlots bed. I’m still awaiting the dvd taking the x out of sex. I wanted you to know that my life is transforming before my eyes. I can say that I am completely and victoriously free. I still read and I’m very careful of what and who I entertain because I have set certain boundaries. I want to thank you for you part in purpose and I give all the glory to the true and living God. I plan on completing my book: The Truth Will Set You Free. Once again thank you for your boldness and willingness to actually deal with areas in the Body of Christ that are often swept under the rug or ignored!!! God Bless You
Of course I remember you. Thanks so much for the encouraging words. I am so sorry about the DVDs. I have been having problems with my equipment and it needs to be repaired but I will get them out to you ASAP! I look forward to the completion of your book and if you need any help with it please let me know. I publish books and I can help you.
Hugs,
Dr. Intimacy
I’m glad you mentioned the book thing… I really don’t have a clue of what I am doing when it comes to the actual publishing part. I wanted to start my on publishing co. as well because I believe the Body of Christ should be in a place to where we don’t have to spend money in secular places when what we need is in the Body… Honestly, I;m at a place where I know God has me and I’m maturing. I’m learning how to live down lies ( I guess that’s part of being delivered from people and what the think and feel! Lol) That entire situation is super crazy… I can write a book on that alone…. I pray to God for the funds we need to get u to AICF comes. too many of use think we are free and we actually on our way to hell, right now! Notice I said we.. I’m concentrating on getting rid of every spot and wrinkle and I’m so close to flowing in purpose that I can actually see it. So I know the enemy is trying to pull out all the stops.. I used to be good at shuting down. I can’t afford to do that now…This thing is serious. Any ways, I do need some assistance with publishing I’ve looked into a lot of information but I really don’t know how to apply it. So what I know I will do is once it’s finished I have to have it copy-righted and I would be honored if you could edit or proof it naturally and spiritually. Since you are one you won’t get caught up in shock or disgust!!
Hello, thank you so much for this website! I wanted to know what you think about my situation, need true advise. I have just recently had my eyes opened by the Holy Spirit about the deception I have been under for several years now! I do not know why I just have been awakened to what has been happening to me, but I thought it was Jesus comforting me. Well, for quite sometime now I now know I have wet dreams to the point of climaxing. But it is like someone or something is using my private parts but since I live in this fleshly body I have to say I enjoyed it.But I seemed to asleep/awake and had dreams as well. I love King Jesus and I have been depressed,ashamed,embarrassed and sad to the point where I have not been interceding like I had been, not to mention to ashamed to seek our Lord, to worship Him and pray. I know I am a prayer warrior/prophetic intercessor of the Most High God, Elohim!!! I asked Jesus to reveal anything and everything that hinders me from becoming more purified and Holier for Him. Well, this is what my eyes were opened to. Is this an incubus spirit visiting me? I became afraid but have rebuked now the spirit of fear!I truly want to be completely delivered from all this. I was shocked, for I Never Knew about such things even existed!!! I want to die to the flesh more. I do not know why I just know about this now, but I thank God for loving us so much that He wants to deliver us from ourselves. I repented and wept before the Lord.I have led a sex free life for my Jesus for the past 4 years since my husband abandoned me.That is how much I love Jesus! But to know that I was sinning (was I?!) was to much to bear! I even wanted to drink a little but I must not, for Jesus delivered me from drugs,alcohol,depression and panic attacks. I do not flirt with men, I just to my Lord,”Jesus, if I have to, I am willing to live a single godly life for the rest of my life here on earth,just for You oh Lord!I believe now that is why this has been happening to me. The spirit is willing, but the flesh is weak!God have mercy on me!I want help! I believe I am in the deliverance process since sometimes it still happens to me. Please keep me in prayer that the Lord show me any open doors I opened. God bless!
Dear Yo,
I am so thankful that The Lord led you here. I can remember how much I used to enjoy having “wet dreams” too before I realized what was going on. I struggled terribly with masturbation due to sexual frustration in my marriage. I was honestly deceived into thinking that God was giving me the wet dreams to releive my sexual tension and keep me from masturbating! How foolish I was. The Holy Spirit began to deal with me about these occurences and show me what was really happening in the spirit and how it was devastating my intimacy with Him. Please read all of the articles on the blog about night demons. There are two other articles that you can find in the archives about Incubu and Succubus because that is what you are dealing with. Feel free to contact me again if you need too and just as a suggestion; some of the CDs and DVDs on my website would really assist you in getting delivered from these spirits. http://www.drintimacy.com
In His Power
Dr. Intimacy
Hello! I thank God for you and your website. I believe I am delivered but do not know or understand why it happened to me again, a few days ago I had a dream that I was having sexual relations with a man that looked like my husband. You see, I have lived a “celibate” life for my Lord Jesus for the past four years!!My husband abandoned me and left me. I chose this because I want to live for Jesus on earth.I love Jesus! I do not even look at men lustfullly nor do I flirt with men at all! I also seem to feel some kind of feeling inside that runs to my private area! what is this? I feel awful and again have not been praying/interceding because of this. I was stunned that it happened again! Do you think I am in the “deliverance process”? Please give me advise! I want to be holier and cleaner for God, who saved me by the blood of his son Jesus Christ!!!
Did some new research and found out that some scientist believe that women have what is called “a female prostate” and that we can actually ejaculate like a man when this sexual organ is stimulated. I am mentioning this because I believe that this had a lot to with some of the incubus attacks that I was having. It was this part of my genital area that seemed to be over stimulated during these times. I also believe that not every episode of this is demonic. It is sometimes hormonal and can be triggered spontaneously. Like with all physical matters we can take authority over this organ in our bodies and command it to be still. Just like a man gets spontaneous erections due to hormonal flutuations and increased blood flow. Sometimes it’s a spiritual attack but it sometimes just a natural physical response that can be brought subject. Just something else to empower us when these instances take place.
Hello sister Laneen,
I want to give you a praise report.Praise the Lord Jesus Christ, I am delivered from lust/incubus!Halleluiah to the Lion of the Tribe of Judah!Oh, how he deeply loves us So much!Of course,I know now to be alert as a good soldier of Christ, for the incubus tried again with me, but let me tell you its as if Abba Father put a spiritual shield powerfully around my physical body! I believe this because when it tried to attack me again with lust,I am asleep and I suddenly wake up and I could tell this evil spirit cannot penetrate my body anymore! I give Jesus all the Glory and Thansgiving sis! Now I pray for the Holy Spirit to lead other women that struggle with this to me so that I may minister with love to them! I now have a passionate desire to help other women!
Hallelujah, hallelujah, hallelujah! I praise Yahweh with you Sis. This is awesome news. I know how good it feels. Thanks so much for sharing!!!